May God the Father give us joy and peace.
Yesterday, we saw the responsibilities of
a Wife.. Today, will see Husband's part.
Some husbands having superiority thought
of being male.
God created Woman from the center point
(Rib) of Man so that no wife is to be considered neither lower or higher than
Husband.
When there was no Father or Mother yet in
earth, that time itself, God instructed man to leave them and to live
peacefully with his wife. We find this 4 times in Bible!! (Mat 19:4-6, Eph
5:31, Mark 10:7, Gen 2:24)
It doesn’t mean you have to chase your
parents out of your home… it means the wife is no longer a priority from the
date of your marriage.
Since the husband and wife are one body –
whether it’s your parents or anyone except the wife (or husband) is secondary
only !!!
The wife is neither a slave, nor a
servant, nor a toy, nor a domestic servant.
They are stronger than men in mental
strength. Pro 31:17
First, its husband to respect wife in
order to get respect from his wife (Eph. 5:33)
If the wife is always burned with hatred
and helplessness, the fight at home will never end.
Post-marriage : It is fornication to
compare with others about the beauty, color and body of the wife. 1 Cor 7: 2,
6:18
The head of the wife is the husband.
Therefore, the husband should give all the necessary advice. (Eph. 5:23)
While we were sinners (Rom 5: 8), enemies
(Rom 5:10), feeble (Rom 5: 6), adversaries and tyrants (Rom 5:6), Jesus Christ,
our husband, loved us and surrendered himself (Eph. 5: 26-27). Rev. 21:2)
At home – instead of being a husband, do
not be a pastor, or an employer, or as a
school Teacher, or as a manager – It’s a home, not a company !!
Husbands should love their wife inspite of
their hatred on you for any reason.. Eph 5:28
Wife *created for husband*. (1 Cor. 11: 9)
Husband is all strength for her.
Husband should give equal value as they
are also qualified to be in heaven. 1 Peter 3:7
Husband and wife should not separate (at
bed) each other unless they have consent. That too for a short while only... 1
Cor 7:5. Else, your prayer life will be ruined !!
Husband should pay all respect to his wife
at any place. 1 Peter 3: 7, 1 Cor 12:22
Being could not show your love and
affection to your own wife or own husband at home but calling others as Sister
& Brother with full smile and praying is utter disguise !!
Husbands and wives should leave their
differences, mis-understanding and rebuild their relationship to adore the God
given blessings and very few further living days in this world.
Both should not allow distance between
them at any levels.
No prayer will go out of your place, if
your anger or envy gets settled before the sunset !!
Let the family build up with love so the
Home qualifies to receive God’s blessing and peace.
*Eddy Joel Silsbee*
Preacher – Kaniyakulam Church of Christ
Teacher - World Bible School
+91 8144 77 6229 / joelsilsbee@gmail.com
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